Black Male 52 looking White Female
Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself Let me start by saying that I am Not looking for the perfect woman. We all have made mistakes, Its ed Life. The key is to learn from them, grow and move on to bigger better things I enjoy meeting new people. Overall, I do a pretty consistent job of communicating what's important. Monogamy is a very attractive quality and I'm drawn to someone whose attraction/commitment continues to deepen over time. Integrity, honesty and morality are also attractive qualities to possess. I'm an open person, but definitely like a lady that's confident, secure, knows who she is, etc. An assured approach to life, balanced with an openness to consider all the alternatives, is a terrific attribute. Attraction definitely grows as the different aspects of someone important to me and for both people to be comfortable being strong or weak, confident or insecure, able to express concerns and happiness. I'm attracted to both creative and logical personalities, though I think everyone is creative in their own way. First attraction for me is all about eyes and smile . . . beyond the first attraction; it becomes more about heart, intellect and humor. Chemistry between two people is important! Overall, I am a down to earth balanced, laid back guy. I love laughing! I am a sensitive caring person, who is sincere. I have learned that I am responsible for my own happiness,my own feelings and my own decisions,I won't blame you or anybody else for the direction my life take. My personal philosophy is that of Pay It Forward. I truly believe that a kind act benefits the person doing it even more than the person who receives that if we each make it a point to perform an act of random kindness it will make the world a better place. The essential conditions of everything we do must be choice, love, passion. when it comes to the search of love age is a matter of numbers and distance is never a barrier. Anyhow, what does one consider an ideal match. I'd say it was more like the ideal excitement that exists between 2 I believe the simple everyday way you treat the one you love is most important, from telling them how much you adore them, to thanking them for the little things they do for you, and for how much they make you happy. A simple caring gesture can mean more than any gift you can receive. My perfect match? I don't believe anyone is perfect, including myself. We all have our flaws and are I'm sure set in our ways to a point at this time in our lives. A match for me would be someone who I have several things in common with, a hard-working, strong, caring, dedicated and loving woman, a simple woman with goals in life. Someone who is fun-loving, has a great sense of humor and doesn't take life too seriously, uncomplicated, someone who appreciates me for who I am.I'm looking for a friend, someone I can trust, and if it develops to another level, that's great. My past relationships have only taught me one thing. They have given me strength and independence to be who I am and what I want in my life. I don't see any past relationships as failures, only as learning experiences and I believe I am a stronger and a better partner today because of where I have been. It's hard to understand what draws people together. Two people who seem totally mismatched might be the perfect pair. I guess if the chemistry is there, then everything else falls into line. You just keep trying until you get it right. There are certain qualities that make a person....respect, compassion, honesty, humor, determination/drive. Anything less is just not acceptable. I am at a place in my life where I am in no hurry to be at a certain destination, and I am trusting the journey and my feet to carry me as I follow the path I need to take. That said, I want to meet and have a friend first, companion second, and have that, in time, develop into a lover/life partner, all mixed in the one person. I believe the happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything, they just make the most of everything that comes along their way Enjoyed Your Gift Today Life and Health --------------------------------------------------------------------------------